I started making my dad a a scrapbook story of him and my mum as a keepsake of their wedding. I will add to it when they started their little family…. aka myself, Paul my brother and Bridgette my sister. My mum loved greens and peacock blue shades so i decided to do the theme around that dropping in a few different snippets of colour. I have made the book out of my own ‘whimsical story book’ from mdf. I am trying really hard this year to stop using baby/wet wipes. They are by far the easiest, but not the best for adding plastic pollution to the sea and the species who live there, and until deemed safe, and plastic free I have been using gauze, cutting it up into strips,and also have also used muslin squares cut it into smaller squares, and just wash and dry them.
I have used DecoArt media fluid in turquoise, white and a little yellow green light. I didn’t prime the mdf as i wanted a more weathered look. I wet the cloth and started with turquoise, let it dry, added a bit of green, then white until i got the colour i wanted. I made a little frame and stamped their names onto a piece of handmade paper and added a couple of small brads to create a picture effect. I used the whimsical stencil and ‘Cosmic shimmer’ sparkle texture paste in ‘Frosty dawn’ to add dimension I cut out some little rectangles using a die and letters for ‘The story of ‘ and drew little strings with a white pen. I went round the edges in frayed burlap distress oxide and attached the letters onto the card, then on to the front of the book. I also used the distress oxide pad round the edges of the cover. I covered a heart in the matching paper to the birds and ran round the edge with a nail file.
Rustic nature papers for inside page / whimsical storybook
As i have a hole in the middle of the front cover I decided to use patterned paper. I bought a 12 x 12 paper pad called ‘Rustic nature’ with birds (my mums favourite) feathers and flowers in some lovely colours from ‘The Works’ It was a bargain at £3.00. It has 24 sheets, double sided, 230gsm and acid free. I cut the card 7.5″ square as the book is 8″ square I used a sheet with flowers and birds, cut out the extra flowers and attached them on top. I cut out some extra birds and did the same with one peeking under the front flower. I covered a heart in the matching paper to the birds and ran round the edge with a nail file. And added a piece of string as if the little birdie is off making a nest.
Taking into account I’m now 55, and not in an age of being brought up with computers, mobile phones and anything else technical, with children who appear to be more clever than me. I pat myself on the back as i have raised them. I am forever asking them questions of technical things i know nothing about, I have had an array of answers: ‘There is a big thing out there called ‘The web’, or ‘Youtube’, and ‘Audible’ where you can listen and learn about stuff, thats how i try to roll now. I stumbled across this quote I couldn’t help but send it to them.
Well, where do i start….. oh my, this has been something else. I actually had the shopping cart added in July. I have had two items added to start me off, so when you go onto my website….yes i have two sets of items for sale. Well, we are now in December, it hasn’t been for lack of trying, when you don’t know what you are doing and spend hours, because i have, trying to add items to it and is all gobbledy gook to me.I have no idea what all these boxes are on wordpress, divi, and woo commerce. Yes i have been tearing my hair out, crying with frustration, leaving it for weeks on end because i can’t face another failure, but hey, along came my friend Lacey and gave me a lesson ( thanks Lacey) it was sooo appreciated. I thought i had wrapped it all up. Well, actually after she had gone i spent the best part of 5 hours adding all my photos to my gallery editing and re-sizing them, putting all the tags on, felt super pleased with myself, updated, came out of the page without the save & exit and voila, they all went back where they came from. Screeeeeeem. So i thought no, keep calm, and go to bed and start a fresh tomorrow.
I have finally managed to achieve everything i did last night, and SAVE & EXIT….yay. And not just that i have done all my content for each product (Still on draft) no you can’t see it yet!!! until I’m completely ready which i hope will be any time now!
And failures are good aren’t they? You can only get better!
I have to say i think i am on my way to being able to build a website….. hahaha.
Planning……… It has not been something I really thought about until the last year or so. I had no idea It was a tool, but my hectic life has been reminding me otherwise. I rarely used to do lists as I always thought I would remember, but my brain loved playing games with me. A year ago I thought I was developing dementia, I started to feel worried as I just couldn’t remember anything, and It made me feel as if I was losing my mind. I used to make jokes with my family about It, or rather they used to make jokes about me. I was referred to a specialist, had an MRI scan, and was relieved it was all fine. The problem was, my blood wasn’t going round my body and my head the way it should because my heart wasn’t functioning properly. It has now been repaired, but unfortunately I still appear to have memory loss, so I’m going to put It down to my age!
So getting back to planning… I started by buying a planner for the beginning of the year, we all have good Intentions of starting the year with good thoughts and plans and then……… we forget. I have been filling my planner in, sometimes I forget, or I’m too busy to look and see what I have planned, and that Is where I slip up. Recently I have tried my hardest to keep up with it after having a bit of a fall at my first craft fair. I was very disorganised and forgot to do this and that, trying to get everything ready at the last minute, which didn’t really work and added so much stress to the whole thing. It was a big learning curve and I think it has taught me a bit of a lesson because since coming back I felt I needed to take stock with things that haven’t gone very well, and start planning ahead, and being more organised (which is going to be a job in Itself). My son has reminded me that if you plan your day the evening before you are 25% more productive the next day. So that is where the planner comes in, my 15 minute nightly ritual, I just have to learn to adhere to It.
a list or chart with information that is an aid to planning.
“my day planner”
If you don’t fail, you will never be successful. Don’t lose faith.
Don’t fear failure, fear being In the exact same place next year as you are today.
Note to self: Don’t give up. You at a different place, and further than you were last year, so look forward, and keep on planning.
Early last year, after a few trips to A&E by ambulance I eventually had a scan and had the unfortunate news that I had a 2.4cm hole In my heart. Not just that, but I needed open heart surgery to repair It. I had a leaking valve, more palpitations than I could cope with, loss of memory, due to my blood shunting back to my lungs, ‘Impressive’ the surgeon said. It crept up on me, and was such a shock. Over the months of being at home, not being able to walk far, couldn’t drive too far by myself. I only went anywhere If someone could take me. Any craft things it was my friend Selina, or other long journeys, my family. Not only was I scared to death, so were my family. And waiting months for the consultants to decide who was doing what I eventually had it In November. While waiting around for months I was designing and making things, not being able, or have much enthusiasm to do much else. I went to the AFCI UK ‘One big show’ last June and they had a feature there called ‘The Creative Dragons’ which I went to with my little whimsical houses, it was extremely scary. I had a table with my products on, and when I got home was called by the buyer Joanne from ‘Hochanda’ and invited onto the show. I was lucky I had my son Samuel to help get all the costings and things together and friends to help decorate, and get them ready. My first show was on the 29th September. I was definitely not firing on all cylinders, and looking back I don’t know how I did It. But yay, I did.
I designed some more and went on ‘Hochanda’ again with them on the 26th March. I managed to get them all packed up and sent to customers, to then fall ill and be taken Into hospital twice with chest pain due to coughing, ended up with a chest Infection, then pneumonia. Lots of antibiotics later, I’m just about feeling better again.
Just before all that happened, I had decided I would like to attend the ‘Create It’ with all my products, so I booked It…….. And here we are 5 Days to go before setting off, and panicking, preparing for my first big craft show on the 19th and 20th May at the ‘Kent Showground’ It’s all very daunting. There has been a lot to think about. The organisation for the workshops, and then we would need paints, embellishments, paper, glues, Inks and the list Is endless, and an absolute…….
A subject or situation presenting unseen hazards.
Yes, that’s just about It, a minefield!!!
So with the help of my groupies, P.A’s, AKA Selina, and Karen (or Lacey & Minnie I call them now) who are organising me, (sorry, helping me) all the way, and our new addition Lynda, who has created a lovely Whimsical house, story book and cards. We have a friend Kathryn making some samples and helping on Saturday. We also have had some lovely cards made by Pat Batley which will be on show. On Sunday my son Jordan and a friend will be our assistants and hopefully help pack up and drive the van home, as Im sure we will be exhausted. And the next day I’m off to Poland for a little break with my daughter Amber, her partner Chris and my granddaughter Isla, (her first little trip abroad).
We are really looking forward to the show with anticipation and excitement.
From where I started through my terrible grief losing my mum, which Is still unbearably painful, and my own health scare, It’s all starting to look a little bit more of a brighter journey.